You have heard, "hold on"
But I say, "let go" Psalm 55:22
You have heard, "be strong"
But I say, "be weak so that I may be strong" 2 Corinthians 12:10
You have heard, "get it together"
But I say, "become broken" Psalm 51:17
You have heard, "figure it out"
But I say, "I will confound the wise" 1 Corinthians 1:27
and "lean not on your own understanding" Proverbs 3:5
You have heard, "assess the situation"
But I say, "look to me" Colossians 3:1-2
You have heard "you know yourself better than anyone"
But I say, "the hairs on your head have been counted" Matthew 10:29-31
I suppose this is all very cliche, but it goes to show how relevant the Bible is in our culture. It shows that God's ways are still not our ways. Even the best advice we can offer is still challenged by a book published 2000 years ago.
Matthew 5 outlines interpretations of the law, challenged by Jesus.